I may not of given birth to them...I may not spend 24 hours a day with them..I may not spend 7 days a week with them...I will never replace there mom but I love them just the same. But with all good comes some bad as well all I wish is that we could all get along and remember it is about the kids..not me not you not dad or stepdad..The kids should be the priority..negativity should be left away from them..Honestly is it necessary to complain to the kids about what there dad or i do with them on the weekends or what we spend on them or buy them or dont buy them..We struggle to make ends meet just as you do, we have bills and other financial obligations like you do, but is it necessary to complain to the kids about this. Please dont send your 5 year old to ask questions about my life..you have my number pick up the phone call me ..ask me..i have nothing to hide.
AHHHHHHHHHHH! I feel better now...life is awesome had a great holiday ..spoiled the kids..spent to much but if we can why not!
This past 6 months has been a roller coaster of life and am enjoying it to the fullest but with all good comes some bad..points up! To all out there married, divorced, step mom, step dad, life partner we all need to keep in mind that children are precious and have enough stress in there little lifes without waving our laundry in front of them, so protect them as much as you can, if you have an issue with some one work it out with them away from there ears believe me they hear everything...dont use them as pawns in your life ..am a firm believer that what goes around will eventually bite you in the ass! Love them unconditionally!
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