I may not of given birth to them...I may not spend 24 hours a day with them..I may not spend 7 days a week with them...I will never replace there mom but I love them just the same. But with all good comes some bad as well all I wish is that we could all get along and remember it is about the kids..not me not you not dad or stepdad..The kids should be the priority..negativity should be left away from them..Honestly is it necessary to complain to the kids about what there dad or i do with them on the weekends or what we spend on them or buy them or dont buy them..We struggle to make ends meet just as you do, we have bills and other financial obligations like you do, but is it necessary to complain to the kids about this. Please dont send your 5 year old to ask questions about my life..you have my number pick up the phone call me ..ask me..i have nothing to hide.
AHHHHHHHHHHH! I feel better now...life is awesome had a great holiday ..spoiled the kids..spent to much but if we can why not!
This past 6 months has been a roller coaster of life and am enjoying it to the fullest but with all good comes some bad..points up! To all out there married, divorced, step mom, step dad, life partner we all need to keep in mind that children are precious and have enough stress in there little lifes without waving our laundry in front of them, so protect them as much as you can, if you have an issue with some one work it out with them away from there ears believe me they hear everything...dont use them as pawns in your life ..am a firm believer that what goes around will eventually bite you in the ass! Love them unconditionally!
Thursday, January 20, 2011
Thursday, September 9, 2010
This and that!
Well am all moved and settled in our new home!
Still some unpacking to do and rearranging but all is good!
The little princess discover SL on my laptop so she thinks it is cool to play dress up on the beach with me! So if I am in world for any length of time i am sure there will be a 5 yr old close by.
Work is work goes by quickly these days but slowing down now that summer has passed us by!
Tried to get the man to come in world but he doesnt get it...would rather cuddle on the couch and watch a movie..even a chick flick he says..
Weekends the kids keep us busy between football andcheerleading and our little excursions to here and there...seems most involve fishing and swings.. enjoying my rl!
well i am off to work then on a mini vacation fo a few days so perhaps a little sl time in the next few days..we will see.
Still some unpacking to do and rearranging but all is good!
The little princess discover SL on my laptop so she thinks it is cool to play dress up on the beach with me! So if I am in world for any length of time i am sure there will be a 5 yr old close by.
Work is work goes by quickly these days but slowing down now that summer has passed us by!
Tried to get the man to come in world but he doesnt get it...would rather cuddle on the couch and watch a movie..even a chick flick he says..
Weekends the kids keep us busy between football andcheerleading and our little excursions to here and there...seems most involve fishing and swings.. enjoying my rl!
well i am off to work then on a mini vacation fo a few days so perhaps a little sl time in the next few days..we will see.
Thursday, July 22, 2010
This and That
Sooner or later we all have to make decisions in life..SL and RL..and those decision may to others look easy but in reality we struggle with them before coming upon the right decision for us as a person...
Lately I have had to do that in my RL and my SL..SL has become just that to me wander in and out of world when i have the time..gave up my land and my home and volunteering at one of my favorite places in world. The time had come for me to do this, to embark on a new adventure called real life..
Over the years in SL I have learned many lessons and have become a stronger person..dont let anyone kid you that it doesnt effect your RL somewhere along the line it will. I have met great people from all over the world and no matter what that wont change. I have had heartbreak and sorrow thru it all but my *virtual friends* have been there for me thru it all. The ups and downs , they have cried wth me and laughed with me and I am proud to call them friends.
My RL I have found someone to share that with me..he makes me laugh and cry.. he treats me better then i have ever been treated and he has brought the happiness back into my life that had been missing for so long! He has 2 wonderful kids that I am getting to know so most of my off time from work is spent with the 3 of them hanging out, and doing diffrent things.
To all who are still in world and those who have wandered away from SL thank you for the laughs and tears!! To my BFF i still miss you and always will!!
HUGS!! for now!
Lately I have had to do that in my RL and my SL..SL has become just that to me wander in and out of world when i have the time..gave up my land and my home and volunteering at one of my favorite places in world. The time had come for me to do this, to embark on a new adventure called real life..
Over the years in SL I have learned many lessons and have become a stronger person..dont let anyone kid you that it doesnt effect your RL somewhere along the line it will. I have met great people from all over the world and no matter what that wont change. I have had heartbreak and sorrow thru it all but my *virtual friends* have been there for me thru it all. The ups and downs , they have cried wth me and laughed with me and I am proud to call them friends.
My RL I have found someone to share that with me..he makes me laugh and cry.. he treats me better then i have ever been treated and he has brought the happiness back into my life that had been missing for so long! He has 2 wonderful kids that I am getting to know so most of my off time from work is spent with the 3 of them hanging out, and doing diffrent things.
To all who are still in world and those who have wandered away from SL thank you for the laughs and tears!! To my BFF i still miss you and always will!!
HUGS!! for now!
Wednesday, July 14, 2010
WOW!
Has been a longtime..much has happened but wont bore you with all the details..I have wander away from SL a bit..Trace and I are no longer together but remain good friends..An era came to an end Big Sur has been closed so have moved on to a new home...
My RL is taking precedent over SL these days met a great guy who treats me like a princess.
I am off to the lovely world of work now but promise will write more soon..I actually remembered my password!
My RL is taking precedent over SL these days met a great guy who treats me like a princess.
I am off to the lovely world of work now but promise will write more soon..I actually remembered my password!
Friday, December 11, 2009
This and That!
WOW!! been along time since I blogged!
What have I been up to..hmmm..moved from Tora 5...unfortunately Muds is getting rid of the sim..so down graded to a little 4096 for me and Trace made ourselves a cozy little beach home on Big Sur where I started out years ago... Building again something I have always enjoyed..Trace has been working on skins and Blacklace is fine tuning her designing skills..Reconnecting with some old friends and letting in some new ones. Rebuilding my photo studio..Trace is working on animations and posses for it..what a creative man he is.
Unfortunately for the time being with Tora5 going away Tiki Tora is closed for now,,hopefully someday we will reopen it.
Missing some that have left SL and unfortunately over the months have seemed to drifted apart emails are few and far in between or none at all.
Real life seems to be cutting more into SL these days..working to much..learning new things and spending some time with family and friends. Went home for Thanksgiving and spent some time with family and friends and ate to much pie!!
What have I been up to..hmmm..moved from Tora 5...unfortunately Muds is getting rid of the sim..so down graded to a little 4096 for me and Trace made ourselves a cozy little beach home on Big Sur where I started out years ago... Building again something I have always enjoyed..Trace has been working on skins and Blacklace is fine tuning her designing skills..Reconnecting with some old friends and letting in some new ones. Rebuilding my photo studio..Trace is working on animations and posses for it..what a creative man he is.
Unfortunately for the time being with Tora5 going away Tiki Tora is closed for now,,hopefully someday we will reopen it.
Missing some that have left SL and unfortunately over the months have seemed to drifted apart emails are few and far in between or none at all.
Real life seems to be cutting more into SL these days..working to much..learning new things and spending some time with family and friends. Went home for Thanksgiving and spent some time with family and friends and ate to much pie!!
Thursday, August 13, 2009
Life
Life..lately my life has taken an unexpected turn for the good or bad havent really decided yet...
has caused me to spend alot of time thinking and asking questions of myself...
The shape the economy is in these days makes one sit back and wonder.. I work for a strong company showing profits still thru the turmoil of the economy many say i have a recession proof job.. Perhaps I do so why am i thinking of walking away from a good job..a good company..this isnt a fly by night thought have done the math thought about and still not sure about it. Some of my friends tell me to suck it up and keep working ...others tell me to give it up and do what i want for a few years...One thought in the back of my head is how long can my company remain strong and it has changed so much over the years I have been with them..In the recents months i have seen upper level management leave , these are people I have known since i was a teen. I have talked with one or two of them but they cannot really discuss why they left and went with a competitor but have indirectly advised me the time may be right to move on. Sure they could be saying this so i will go work for them so there opinion is very low on my list.
After 25 years I can walk away with a nice sum or do i hold out for a few more years and take a chance. All my life I have done what is expected of me ..so this isnt an easy decision. I have seen many of my friends laid off after years with a company so i do look at that as well. My company has never *laidoff* but unfortunately i have seen many good people pushed out for various reasons.
Perhaps I will hold off and take some vacation and travel a bit then make a decision . It is not something I will do tommorrow but i see a diffrent life in 2010..wether I stay or leave I will be taking care of me!
has caused me to spend alot of time thinking and asking questions of myself...
The shape the economy is in these days makes one sit back and wonder.. I work for a strong company showing profits still thru the turmoil of the economy many say i have a recession proof job.. Perhaps I do so why am i thinking of walking away from a good job..a good company..this isnt a fly by night thought have done the math thought about and still not sure about it. Some of my friends tell me to suck it up and keep working ...others tell me to give it up and do what i want for a few years...One thought in the back of my head is how long can my company remain strong and it has changed so much over the years I have been with them..In the recents months i have seen upper level management leave , these are people I have known since i was a teen. I have talked with one or two of them but they cannot really discuss why they left and went with a competitor but have indirectly advised me the time may be right to move on. Sure they could be saying this so i will go work for them so there opinion is very low on my list.
After 25 years I can walk away with a nice sum or do i hold out for a few more years and take a chance. All my life I have done what is expected of me ..so this isnt an easy decision. I have seen many of my friends laid off after years with a company so i do look at that as well. My company has never *laidoff* but unfortunately i have seen many good people pushed out for various reasons.
Perhaps I will hold off and take some vacation and travel a bit then make a decision . It is not something I will do tommorrow but i see a diffrent life in 2010..wether I stay or leave I will be taking care of me!
Thursday, August 6, 2009
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